(22-11-2020, 03:40)dreamergirl Wrote:(18-11-2020, 20:54)Happyme Wrote:Phew,
Both of you girls are tough to crack! But i love you anyways.
I'm not an advocate for implants but sometimes this is a better route.
I had a friend that was born with a short leg.
He wore a special shoe and did exercises to stretch his leg from the time he was 6 until after graduating high school.
I lost touch with him till after college and we met up together after about 5 years.
When I saw him walking towards me I was amazed that he was upright, no dragging a 5lb boot and quite confident in his carriage!
What happened to you I asked?
After all those years of trying to stretch his leg he met someone in college that told him of a "bone Dr" that could fix him up.
He resisted because I felt he could fix it himself.
He finally gave in and had the operation.
Now he only regrets that he was so stubborn didn't do this sooner. He missed out on so much life by hating himself and just being a recluse.
Its not good to hate your self or a body part. Get it fixed.
There is fat transfer which is a bit safer than implants.
I'm trying
Huggs Bobbi
You're right. I think that it would solve my problem but I'm wary of creating new problems, either health problems or mental problems. I always fear that if it's an unnatural part of my body, I won't feel a true self esteem boost and it might cause me to feel even worse about myself mentally. I don't know though, maybe you're right and I'd only wish that I did it sooner and had my dream body without wasting years hating myself.
Maybe look into the fat transfer. Its all natural and its all you .
They suck the fat out of places you want to thin down and put it in places that you want it to be.
I'm sure you will see lots of horror stories about the process but just put them in your knowledge bank and focus on the good ones.
Research the doctors and ask lots of questions.
Its vital for you to learn to love your body and actually the WHOLE you. There is a beautiful world out here if you look for it and enjoy it.
Huggs
Bobbi