19-02-2020, 18:20
Sorry it's not going well for you.
I have tried to approach the subject, (it's kinda obvious with the supplements in the cupboard, and he sees me massaging after showering, and he's seen my NB but his only interest in it is watching the breast in the dome for about 5 minutes then he wants it off for other reasons
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No, I dont 'noogle' in front of him but I did show him and tell him about the science behind it (trying to keep true to the 'No Secrets' concept) and with that he said twice during sex that he wanted to see my breasts in the domes.
I've been with my spouse for 27 years and only married for the last 2.5 of them,... (I wouldnt marry until he had his porn addiction in remission) he has no interest in even seeing my breasts except once a week,... (if I'm lucky). He conditioned himself over the years (of viewing porn) to only notice 'other' women, (even though he stopped over 5 years ago, he never reconditioned himself, and has no interest in doing so).
Makes this whole daunting process even more depressing, especially when I gain weight so easily when I try something different/new. Makes the option of just trying something scary as hell.
Sorry, I dont know why I offered this info, just one of those days.
I have tried to approach the subject, (it's kinda obvious with the supplements in the cupboard, and he sees me massaging after showering, and he's seen my NB but his only interest in it is watching the breast in the dome for about 5 minutes then he wants it off for other reasons
) No, I dont 'noogle' in front of him but I did show him and tell him about the science behind it (trying to keep true to the 'No Secrets' concept) and with that he said twice during sex that he wanted to see my breasts in the domes.
I've been with my spouse for 27 years and only married for the last 2.5 of them,... (I wouldnt marry until he had his porn addiction in remission) he has no interest in even seeing my breasts except once a week,... (if I'm lucky). He conditioned himself over the years (of viewing porn) to only notice 'other' women, (even though he stopped over 5 years ago, he never reconditioned himself, and has no interest in doing so).
Makes this whole daunting process even more depressing, especially when I gain weight so easily when I try something different/new. Makes the option of just trying something scary as hell.
Sorry, I dont know why I offered this info, just one of those days.