[DollyAmbition]

Shay- you will get there again! I think there is something to the power of positive thought and it's amazing how it can affect even sizes we wear. I think this has a lot to do with confidence. When I was young I wore a much larger jean size, for example. I couldn't bear the sad feeling of not being able to squeeze into what my actual size was (probably US 10 or 11) so I would just try on and get the larger sizes for me- 12 and 13 US. At some point when even bothering to try pants if it were tight at any point in pulling them on I would give up. Hence I always wore baggy pants! But it's ok this was cool while I was a teenager- well at least I thought it was. Poor kids now with their skinny jeans! Anyway, now I realize this is just how it is for some jeans- you have to yank a little whilst pulling them up and they will still fit just fine or even loose sometimes. Ok I have my days where they're tight but that's alright now now

So when I lost some weight I lost the jeans complex and gained the boob one. I really didn't think I would be able to do a "B" cup when the girl at the store suggested I try a 32b instead of 34a. But it worked out ok and I LOVE the demi cups because they seem to accommodate however swollen or not I am- and this was true before Brava as well.

I really think you will get there again and I bet you are closer than you realize! Good luck and thanks again for the support/advise


Kiagirl- wow that sounds like a great tip! I sometimes even have the issue of the domes caving in slightly with the Brava large domes. I'm sure it's my fault though for putting NB dome pressure on them! I feel more ready to get it now! If only money wasn't an issue... Well thanks so much