[EllaC]

so push up bra are good to reshape your breast 
or am I missing something here 

Correct 

thanks, Ella!
i was wondering cause i remember once i was reading in the form that padded bras are bad for your blood flow = your breast growth, but i belive it depends on how tight

Yes that’s also true , I always wear bras loose or as loose can get away with. Just means you have to reposition more 

So i guess i should be looking at something similar (bra); i stopped wearing structured bras and went with nothing or 'lounge' bra to promote circulation, ive now brought swimmers and the cups seemed to fit ok but since ive started developing i have a lot of tissue/fat on my sides; underarm area near top of ribs at sides  (hope that makes sense). So either cups are too small pushing fat to sides but cups themselves are not tight against my breast (still room to grow) or its accumulating at sides and needs to be manipulated towards front of chest. Hhhmmm???
So Ella if you find something that post to the southern hemisphere, let me know.

Have you had a professional fitting to make sure wearing the right cup. 
Plus I found a couple on wish I got , they aren’t the ones I wanted but not far off. 

For your Bonny it’s new growth too, I wonder if you let it grow where it wants too cause suppressing with a bra might hinder it??.... for me I KNOW it’s those bloody push up bras I wore for years never realising you swoop and scoop so I squashed my own existing tissue to the sides, does that make sense? I think maybe you keep up not wearin em assuming it’s new growth eh?
Maybe at the fitting say to them your boobs have been growing for “whatever” reason you make up and see what they think, of course though they won’t buy into the fat reposition stuff at a guess but if it’s not true why are bradelis so popular and expensive