[Bonny]

so push up bra are good to reshape your breast 
or am I missing something here 

Correct 

thanks, Ella!
i was wondering cause i remember once i was reading in the form that padded bras are bad for your blood flow = your breast growth, but i belive it depends on how tight

Yes that’s also true , I always wear bras loose or as loose can get away with. Just means you have to reposition more 

So i guess i should be looking at something similar (bra); i stopped wearing structured bras and went with nothing or 'lounge' bra to promote circulation, ive now brought swimmers and the cups seemed to fit ok but since ive started developing i have a lot of tissue/fat on my sides; underarm area near top of ribs at sides  (hope that makes sense). So either cups are too small pushing fat to sides but cups themselves are not tight against my breast (still room to grow) or its accumulating at sides and needs to be manipulated towards front of chest. Hhhmmm???
So Ella if you find something that post to the southern hemisphere, let me know.