28-09-2010, 00:03
Cheryl, If I were to take a guess, it's really not about you at this moment or that you did something or crossed a line, so relax a bit. He's probably going through a major identity crisis at this moment.
Curiosity, then libido, took him down a path that afterwards probably freaked him out big time. I would lay money on it that he's been a mental mess ever since questioning himself now. Does this make me gay, it was my best friend who use to be male, but then again that friend is now a female. You get the idea.
You are secure in who you are and what you have done, and no one was able to give you that peace of mind but you and now he's going to have to find it too from within.
He may show back up at some point and he may not, but you've got to move forward and be okay with it either way it turns out.
hugs, Mel
Curiosity, then libido, took him down a path that afterwards probably freaked him out big time. I would lay money on it that he's been a mental mess ever since questioning himself now. Does this make me gay, it was my best friend who use to be male, but then again that friend is now a female. You get the idea.
You are secure in who you are and what you have done, and no one was able to give you that peace of mind but you and now he's going to have to find it too from within.
He may show back up at some point and he may not, but you've got to move forward and be okay with it either way it turns out.
hugs, Mel