[AbiDrew85]

Pedophile is I think as close a single word as we get, but that can actually mean older male/female doing any sort of perverted things dealing with young children, both male/female... It's a WAAAAAAY broader term. It doesn't technically even infer lust, it could just be a business transaction and it's still pedophilia in English terminology. We of course have cougars, but that is the opposite way and again, doesn't necessarily mean the younger male is THAT young, and, usually, doesn't. We just need broader adoption of some of those types of words from other languages I think. It's not like we don't have it here, we just still try to pretend like it doesn't happen. I'm not going to say it's not wrong, it most certainly is, but it does happen.

I guess my point is that it's not that Japanese people have more of those odd fetishes, it's just that they are more willing to acknowledge their existence and put words to them. They're just as illegal there as they are here in any form of "real". They do allow it in their animation and drawn art though. And if you look at the statistics, by allowing limited freedom to explore those bad tendencies, they actually manage to keep better control on the actual occurrence of the real thing than our policy of pretending it doesn't exist.

And LOL about your BF. My BF actually is a bit of an ass man. That's not to say he doesn't go for the tits, he just likes ass to go with it, and, actually even goes MORE for the ass.