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Yes - Andys right. I definately read a post by Anastasia saying that a nice big Granny bra that fits you around the band nice and snugly, with the cups cut out should help you out.
Please be persistent, don't give up! I know you said you are impatient, and it can't help that it is actually a pain in the ass to Noogle for you but keep in mind the progress that you will make with the system. I think I read somewhere, like you said, that once a little swelling is acheived then your problem will be aliveated (sp?).
Try the bra. Keep us posted