18-02-2016, 04:43
Ella I am right there with you! I HATE wearing a bra. I have never found one that is comfortable to wear, even spending $50 or more on expensive brand ones. When I am wearing clothes in layers I do not wear one, and if I am wearing one I take it off the minute I get home. They are seriously the WORST!
And after nearly 3 years with my boyfriend, I still feel shy about trying to act sexy, so I can relate to you there. I forget that he thinks I am sexy even if I don't, so the best way to make myself remember is to PRETEND to feel sexy. As in sometimes I will take off my shirt in front of him randomly so he can touch my boobs and when I see him enjoy that it makes me feel more attractive. But there is always that scary thought of rejection or that he will laugh at me that I need to get over every single time I try something.
I would like to learn more about the phsyco c as well. I am going to see if I can get that book Dianna is talking about.
And after nearly 3 years with my boyfriend, I still feel shy about trying to act sexy, so I can relate to you there. I forget that he thinks I am sexy even if I don't, so the best way to make myself remember is to PRETEND to feel sexy. As in sometimes I will take off my shirt in front of him randomly so he can touch my boobs and when I see him enjoy that it makes me feel more attractive. But there is always that scary thought of rejection or that he will laugh at me that I need to get over every single time I try something.
I would like to learn more about the phsyco c as well. I am going to see if I can get that book Dianna is talking about.