[EllaC]

Look better.
I mean why else do women wear push up bras, uplift bras, You name it! All these super models... IM sure they aren't wearing bras that DONT make hem look attractive.

Anyway I'm having a sulky moment

My husband perks up and pays attention to me soo much more when I wear a bra that pushes up the girls and makes them stand out... However... I HATE wearing bras you know he will poke and squeeze them(or more the bra that makes them look perkier) and I get really grumpy cause I know he will end up feeling more bra than my boobs ..

I can't help but feel like an unattractive troll when I'm not wearing them and feel soo unfeminine.

I guess had I have more self confidence in my sexuality then I wouldn't feel this wAy and continually take risks to raise x/y/z hormones to try make myself look/feel more feminine

Sorry to vent, it's not my usAl style but I figure a few feel like myself male or female.

Maybe we need to learn to love ourselves and FEEL sexy no matter what our desired bosom or what have you feature may be... Maybe we need to act sexy whether we feel it or not ..

I can in all honesty say a person who I find unattractive can be "attractive" to me IF they act and perceive themselves to be a sex symbol. Is this the magic key ....
Love ourselves and see ourselves as sexy and what not...

Il try it tonight anyway and see how it goes down!