[Bambii]

perhaps you should try a glass of wine or two beforehand lol things are significantly less painful with a bit of alcohol I find. & make it a romantic slow night, like have it start with him kissing up your neck or whatever you like and moving slowly down your body with his kisses, and maybe even have him give you a back massage that moves down to your butt and thighs, nice & slow, just to get you warmed up. & then start with fingering with some coconut oil or lube, and you can even help him get in by kind of spreading yourself for him with your hands