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Greetings, y'all. Pardon the late reply. I would just like to mention that this thread here, might offer some inspiration on the topic:
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=21505&pid=129280#pid129280

I will add that everyone and in particular, everyone's mind, heart, experience, and expectations are different. So the answer to all of those questions is kinda like, give it your best/most joyous/positive shot! Good luck! Luvz!