I'm new to the forum - Hi!
I'm thirtysomething with two small kids. I'm petite and used to be a solid 34A before I had kids - back then I wished was bigger, but it was OK for my size and frame. After pregnancy and breastfeeding twice, I am now left with a 34AA - basically flat as a pancake and I really wish I could at least have my old boobs back! Now after the kids, my body just isn't the same, even with exercise and my metabolism is catching up with me. I used to be able to eat anything, but I was also running a lot, and now am realizing my hips, thighs, stomach are not quite the same - accumulating more fat, and to make matters worse, the boobs just look REALLY inadequate and not at all proportional.
When I was in my early 20s I had fleetingly considered surgery, just because it seemed all the girls with big boobs got all the attention, although I had several boyfriends (not all at the same time!), and they didn't seem to mind my small boobs. I wouldn't consider this now - I'm trying to eat healthy and all natural foods, and putting plastic in my body is not something I want to do.
I struggle with the fact that I am buying into the idea that women need to have big/bigger boobs, and that looks are really important, and worry about passing on my insecurities to my daughter. However, I equate it with wearing makeup, dying hair, wearing padded bras, etc, which is all done to artificially make ourselves look better. How is NBE or even surgical implants any different?
Anyway, I'm unsure of what to try first, but initially got thinking about this after hearing about the Brava system. I'm possibly considering noogleberry and maybe massage and some herbs. I don't want my kids to see what I'm doing and start asking questions/telling their friends at school!
My husband is great and still thinks I'm sexy (he's an ass man, thank goodness), but I'm sure he would be happy if I had my old boobs back. I briefly mention the brava/NB idea and he'd be supportive.
Anything that works particularly well for post-breast feeding boobies? Thanks!
I'm thirtysomething with two small kids. I'm petite and used to be a solid 34A before I had kids - back then I wished was bigger, but it was OK for my size and frame. After pregnancy and breastfeeding twice, I am now left with a 34AA - basically flat as a pancake and I really wish I could at least have my old boobs back! Now after the kids, my body just isn't the same, even with exercise and my metabolism is catching up with me. I used to be able to eat anything, but I was also running a lot, and now am realizing my hips, thighs, stomach are not quite the same - accumulating more fat, and to make matters worse, the boobs just look REALLY inadequate and not at all proportional.
When I was in my early 20s I had fleetingly considered surgery, just because it seemed all the girls with big boobs got all the attention, although I had several boyfriends (not all at the same time!), and they didn't seem to mind my small boobs. I wouldn't consider this now - I'm trying to eat healthy and all natural foods, and putting plastic in my body is not something I want to do.
I struggle with the fact that I am buying into the idea that women need to have big/bigger boobs, and that looks are really important, and worry about passing on my insecurities to my daughter. However, I equate it with wearing makeup, dying hair, wearing padded bras, etc, which is all done to artificially make ourselves look better. How is NBE or even surgical implants any different?
Anyway, I'm unsure of what to try first, but initially got thinking about this after hearing about the Brava system. I'm possibly considering noogleberry and maybe massage and some herbs. I don't want my kids to see what I'm doing and start asking questions/telling their friends at school!
My husband is great and still thinks I'm sexy (he's an ass man, thank goodness), but I'm sure he would be happy if I had my old boobs back. I briefly mention the brava/NB idea and he'd be supportive.
Anything that works particularly well for post-breast feeding boobies? Thanks!