02-05-2010, 21:01
Bibi, lol were you with an ex of mine?! I swear I had one (I've only been down on like 4 guys, hubby included) and this one asked me not to hold my teeth back! And I was always told before that's what you need to do not to hurt them. He liked me to scrap my teeth along his penis, it excited him, but he also enjoyed everything rough. I could literally slap around his stuff down there and he'd moan in enjoyment from it. My hubby doesn't mind his penis being slapped lightly, but not any other type of roughness.
As Cheryl said some males don't like their balls touched, my son's father was that way, he wouldn't even let me gently touch them, he said it hurt. And I'm very gentle, remember I am bisexual and have had experience with females, who are a little more delicate than males. But my hubby LOVES me to touch his balls while I mess with his penis, he doesn't like it rough, just a gentle massage and rubbing, and he likes me to massage his taint (the part in between their balls and butt hole) either me to run my fingers on it gently or my nails, to sort of massage/tickle it, drives him absolutely nuts.
Males are like females, they are all individual, no two are the same. Like Bibi said you kinda just got to experiment and see what they like and don't like. You never know until you try. For example, I don't personally like anal except maybe light stimulation, it's just not my thing, but a gf of mine loves it, she tells me how she loves her hubby to do her there and how much she orgasms from it. My hubby loves it as well, that's what we have vibrating eggs for, it really spices things up. Just suggest stuff to him or start doing stuff you want to try or do and see how he reacts. If it's something out of the norm though I would ask lol. I personally like some things that are considered taboo while others may not want to do that. I say as long as it involves adults, everything is mutual, everyone is enjoying themselves, then there is nothing wrong with it. Though I wouldn't do stuff that would compromise someone's life, I have seen stuff on the news where couples were risking their lives for the thrill and that's just scary to me. But to each their own.
Either way Aradia, I hope it works out for you!
As Cheryl said some males don't like their balls touched, my son's father was that way, he wouldn't even let me gently touch them, he said it hurt. And I'm very gentle, remember I am bisexual and have had experience with females, who are a little more delicate than males. But my hubby LOVES me to touch his balls while I mess with his penis, he doesn't like it rough, just a gentle massage and rubbing, and he likes me to massage his taint (the part in between their balls and butt hole) either me to run my fingers on it gently or my nails, to sort of massage/tickle it, drives him absolutely nuts.
Males are like females, they are all individual, no two are the same. Like Bibi said you kinda just got to experiment and see what they like and don't like. You never know until you try. For example, I don't personally like anal except maybe light stimulation, it's just not my thing, but a gf of mine loves it, she tells me how she loves her hubby to do her there and how much she orgasms from it. My hubby loves it as well, that's what we have vibrating eggs for, it really spices things up. Just suggest stuff to him or start doing stuff you want to try or do and see how he reacts. If it's something out of the norm though I would ask lol. I personally like some things that are considered taboo while others may not want to do that. I say as long as it involves adults, everything is mutual, everyone is enjoying themselves, then there is nothing wrong with it. Though I wouldn't do stuff that would compromise someone's life, I have seen stuff on the news where couples were risking their lives for the thrill and that's just scary to me. But to each their own.
Either way Aradia, I hope it works out for you!