30-04-2010, 21:32
Hi everyone, as many of you know i am male but ive been living as a woman for, god i cant remember lol a long time and i am waiting to have the operation to make me a woman. Now if i was on the NHS is this country it could take 3 or 4 years to get the operation so i chose to go down the private route but its still a long wait, it could be another year or so yet maybe longer. Ok i have a massive decision and im really unsure what to do and would love other peoples opinions on this. I have been intouch with a private clinic in another country and its a very good one with alot of references and everything checks out, i have done alot of checking on this lol, now i spoke to a specialist surgeon at the clinic and he has basicaly said if i can show him a refferel from my gender specialist that he would do my operation, as soon as i can get there now im so tempted by this but i dont know, its alot of money which i can get but it will put me in a little debt but nothing major, i have my reference from my specialist and i feel ready and i keep convincing myself more and more to do it. I would love any opinions on this as i need a push either way, my friends have all said to do it but they know how much i want it and might be abit biased and i know i will get exellent advice on here either way. Thanks everyone.
Hugs Cheryl xxxx
Hugs Cheryl xxxx