[Bibi]

Cheryl, I don´t really have a guy problem to ask about but I am a bit curious about the following: there is a dad in my son´s class (I mean he´s the dad of one of my son´s classmates) who´s always eyeing me. I don´t really know him but last sunday we all went to a barbecue with all the children and parents. He was there with his wife (I´m divorced, so single) and he kept sitting next to me, trying to talk with me and then openly flirting.
I´m not prudish or something like that and I don´t mind some guy trying to flirt some with me (I´d never ever become involved with a married man though, but that´s because I don´t want to get hurt), but the thing that made me uncomfortable was that his wife was right there. Also, I noticed she was wearing a wedding ring and he wasn´t.

So what I was wondering was: what was going on in his head? Why would he openly act like that?
I always thought guys tried to control themselves in front of their wives...
(BTW I wasn´t looking sexy at all, it was quite cold and I must´ve looked like an austrian skier with all the pullovers and scarves I had on.)