26-04-2010, 06:15
Okay I understand males better than most females do because the majority of my life I was a tomboy and almost all my friends were guys, they considered me one of the guys and never watched what they said around me because they knew I wouldn't get offended. I know it's hard to understand when you have insecurities, like with me, my hubby likes breast sizes small B to big C (big C being 36C). So he doesn't go "boing" for big boobies he even thinks D's and bigger are gross, the only reason he understands why I want to be a 32D or 32DD is because those sizes aren't really the typical D and DD sizes. A 32DD is like a 36C. Well anyway, I'm trying to get my tummy flat again which is very difficult after having a child. And well he likes flat tummies. All the female pics he has all the women have a few major things in common... pretty face, petite, flat tummy, and normally a nice ass. I have a pretty face, I'm petite, and have a nice ass but gotta work on the tummy. And he has said things that hurt and first reaction was "you asshole" lol but then I sat down and thought about it, he wasn't trying to hurt me. You gotta realize males have 2 heads and most the time they think with the wrong one!
Now to tell you what he was saying by "she looks just like you, asian, tall, big boobs, but flat butt and she made me go boing" in girl talk that would be "I seen this girl that reminded me soo much of you, it made me think of you and miss you so much and I got horny hehe" guys don't always communicate what they really mean. Also a male thinks about sex every 8 seconds, it's how they are programmed. So you can't really take that stuff to heart, it will just drive you nuts!
Heck a friend of mine and hubby's was here the other week, his wife was at home with their kids and he told us about this girl he seen that gave him a boner, he went on and on about her for a good 5 min, then he went right into saying how much she reminded him of his wife. Then he pointed out flaws in this woman that his wife was better in. So yea, trust me, the other girl's boobs might be more "eye candy" for him, but males like any size breasts as long as they can touch and play with em lol.
Males are just more sexual where as females are more emotional. Just the way it is. I always use their "weaknesses" against them lol, I'm evil I know. Anytime I want something all I have to do is wear some booty shorts and shake it in front of hubby, when they are horny they will agree to almost anything lol. He calls me his evil temptress. But he loves it. Once you understand how guys think, not let it get to you, then use it to your advantage that's when you can be more in control.
And Cheryl I'm curious, how do you feel and think differently now living as a woman than you did as a man? That would definitely be a good read. Also just curious, you don't have to answer if you don't want I'm just naturally a curious person, are you still into women or are you into males now? Just wondering how this whole transformation has changed your life other than on a physical level. Like do you get disgusted by males starring at your chest? Does it make you feel uncomfortable if they flirt with you or make comments? My hubby is always catching guys checking me out, I tend to not pay attention lol.
Now to tell you what he was saying by "she looks just like you, asian, tall, big boobs, but flat butt and she made me go boing" in girl talk that would be "I seen this girl that reminded me soo much of you, it made me think of you and miss you so much and I got horny hehe" guys don't always communicate what they really mean. Also a male thinks about sex every 8 seconds, it's how they are programmed. So you can't really take that stuff to heart, it will just drive you nuts!
Heck a friend of mine and hubby's was here the other week, his wife was at home with their kids and he told us about this girl he seen that gave him a boner, he went on and on about her for a good 5 min, then he went right into saying how much she reminded him of his wife. Then he pointed out flaws in this woman that his wife was better in. So yea, trust me, the other girl's boobs might be more "eye candy" for him, but males like any size breasts as long as they can touch and play with em lol.
Males are just more sexual where as females are more emotional. Just the way it is. I always use their "weaknesses" against them lol, I'm evil I know. Anytime I want something all I have to do is wear some booty shorts and shake it in front of hubby, when they are horny they will agree to almost anything lol. He calls me his evil temptress. But he loves it. Once you understand how guys think, not let it get to you, then use it to your advantage that's when you can be more in control.
And Cheryl I'm curious, how do you feel and think differently now living as a woman than you did as a man? That would definitely be a good read. Also just curious, you don't have to answer if you don't want I'm just naturally a curious person, are you still into women or are you into males now? Just wondering how this whole transformation has changed your life other than on a physical level. Like do you get disgusted by males starring at your chest? Does it make you feel uncomfortable if they flirt with you or make comments? My hubby is always catching guys checking me out, I tend to not pay attention lol.