26-05-2014, 01:51
(25-05-2014, 22:05)lovedebbii Wrote:(25-05-2014, 21:47)Blue Colleen Wrote: I'm not sure either why that girl wouldn't date you... Were you short? Shorter than her? It would probably have been the reason lol.
Or maybe she found you creepy. Did she let you sit next to her? Girls usually like boys that are confident, but still sweet, and funny.
But if the problem was your appearance, I can't really tell what exactly in your appearance. I find my crush extremely beautiful yet ALL my friends think he's ugly as ****!
And now that I'm thinking he may not like me for some other reason, I wear padded bras to school and I look bigger than I really am... Tho it looks different than other girl's breasts so maybe they all know I wear padded bras??? Idk. But I'm too quiet and extremely shy, even more when he's in the same room. But would this be reason to not date me? I act normally around my friends and people I know well...
I highly doubt that a guy won't like you because you wear padded bras. I like bras that are more non padded to lightly lined but that not the point lol. A lot of people like to date people they can talk to. Most guys won't approach if they think you're closed off and that's the kind of vibe most shy people emit and that can also be intimidating. If I like a guy I'll totally be myself around them and if they think I'm weird then they're not the one but I've only had one guy who thought that and we ended up becoming really close friends after I started dating his brother. I think girls overanalyze when it comes to guys they like and most guys just want a girl who's laid back and fun.
I can tell you this, if you're a REALLY good looking girl, like, really hot, y'know, like Debbii, guys will instantly think, "Look at her!! she's GORGEOUS!! She's got TONS of guys DRIPPING off her!!!! What chance do I have?????" So, they probably won't even bother!! In the meantime, I've heard that there's so many hot girls that can't get a date!!!! Why? Because guys are too scared/self-depreciating, to bother to ask her out!! Girls need to take the wheel sometimes!! If you see a guy you think you might like, go after him!! Chances are he's afraid of being turned down by you thinking you've already got a number of guys!!