24-05-2014, 02:44
(24-05-2014, 01:44)Blue Colleen Wrote:(24-05-2014, 01:20)Missed Miss Wrote:(24-05-2014, 00:30)Blue Colleen Wrote:(23-05-2014, 19:28)lovedebbii Wrote: Big breast does not make a person attractive. Nice round breast can be quite alluring but all boobs are just sacks of fat and their only purpose is to give nurishment to newborn babies, which I think is one of the most beautiful purposes the female body can have. But it doesn't matter what size they are because 32A's have fed children just as well as 32D's. Boobs does not make a person attractive and I know this because there are plenty of men and woman who have wanted to get in my pants even at my smallest cups.
It's true that with the laws of attraction at hand most men will not initially hit on a person if they don't find that person attractive but plenty have come to find a person attractive or fallen in love with them after getting to know them
And we all have preferences there's nothing wrong with that but just because a guy doesn't prefer the way you look doesn't make you ugly in any way
It's hard to love yourself in a world where we are though to hate and be ashamed of what we are but we at least have to try if not to put our own minds at ease then to show the younger generation that there is no need to torture themselves like that
You shouldn't feel like you have to change your appearance just to find a person because all that eventually fades and you're only left with you inner beauty which has a lot more effect than any outer beauty.
"Big breasts do not make a person more attractive" That's simply not true. Seriously, have you ever researched this?
Go to the bottom of this page, #1:
http://www.cracked.com/article_19834_5-scientific-explanations-your-sexual-perversions_p2.html
Scroll down to body attractiveness http://www.viewzone.com/attractiveness2.html
This: http://nicholassterling.wordpress.com/2011/01/30/why-men-like-large-breasts/
And no one even needs to research to know this. Seriously. Why the hell would A LOT women pay the thousands of dollars for a breast augmentation surgery if it didn't make them more attractive??!?!?!??? They enjoy the back pain?????? Seriously. Seriously. Just google "attractive women" and count in your right hand fingers the flat chested women you see in the first thousand of photos.
Well you don't even need to do that. Just read some 9gag comments, in ANY post. There is ALWAYS something related to big boobs.
Yes, Blue, but that's what SOCIETY TELLS you to like!! Maybe you can take it upon yourself and even some of your friends to do your own survey and ask guys if they'd take a girl and ordinary-looking girl with big tits over a gorgeous girl with small tits. I'd take Cameron Diaz over pretty much ANYONE with plastic tits!! Have you ever seen NCIS? There's a girl on that show who isn't really all that pretty, just basically very average-looking, and, to this day, I have NO idea how big her tits are and I don't really care!! But, I'd LOVE to go out with her!!!! Something about her eyes, her face, her personality, her hair, just DOES something to me!! It's Cote, the one that plays, Ziva. She can eat crackers in MY bed ANY day!!
Yeah, most guys DO love a huge rack and would love to get a girl that has one, but, look at how many people get divorced these days because they choose the WRONG people to marry for the WRONG and plastic reasons!! "She's got HUGE tits!! I think I'll marry her!!" A few years later, he takes her tits out of his eyes and finds out it's NOT the match made in heaven that he THOUGHT it was!! Back in the `50's, `40's and before, people got married because they LOVED each other!! And, for the most part, they STAYED married, `til death do they part!! Tits are SUPERFICIAL, AT BEST!! My cousin, Julie, has had LOTS of guys chasing after her her whole life, y'know what? She's an A cup!!!! But, because she's a real sweetheart and very pretty (think Michelle Pfiffer) she's even had her own cousins chasing after her all her life!!
You know, the problem with discussions and arguments, both online and IRL, is that no one will ever say they're wrong. They can think "this person has got a point... I was wrong here" but they'll never SAY it.
Well this just leads to never-ending inutile arguments so I have to say. You're right. Maybe breasts aren't the most important thing on earth for boys. Maybe not even for any boy.
If only I was gorgeous...! Then I would not have to care about my breasts AT ALL! But it is not the case sadly... I do know people uglier than me but I'm plain! And I'm Brazilian so I have boring brown hair and boring brown eyes. All I got in my favor are a big butt and nice lips, and I dont have flat hips, but who cares about that.
Understand? I'm not gorgeous so I have to try to grow my breasts, maybe just a little more, to be at least acceptable!
Well, good, I'm glad you actually see it my way! ;-) It wasn't an argument, it was a discussion, as far as I know.
Blue, NOBODY'S PERFECT, hun!! But, not that people are truly ugly!! I've had the "I'm ugly"'s most of my life, too, but, here you all are telling me I'm quite good-looking!! And I'm not the only one that's said I'm ugly. A number of people in my life had said so, mostly guys, though. I don't know that ANY girls have ever said it. either they're too nice or they just don't see me as ugly, but if THAT'S the case, why isn't there a line of them all the way around my block waiting for their chance to mark their territory in my underwear?
As far as I know, I haven't seen any pictures of you, but I'd SERIOUSLY doubt you're as ugly as you seem to think you are!! Did you ever see the movie, "Looker"? It stars Susan Dey, James Coburn and albert Finney. http://youtu.be/YKuMguUKGyg Part of it deals with what media claims is a perfect image!! It's what I've been on about here about the magazines TELLING you what you SHOULD look like when, in all reality, you're absolutely perfect the way you are!! You're YOU!! Why do you think you need to "be" someone else?