(24-05-2014, 01:46)lovedebbii Wrote:(24-05-2014, 01:05)Blue Colleen Wrote: Yeah you're right in some way... But I can't not "fix" it! You know, the more attractive boys do like bigger breasts.I'm sorry that a jerk who doesn't like you is making you feel bad about yourself and not all women like jerks. Maybe if you'd only realize your self worth it wouldn't bother you so much.
And... I'm ashamed of this but I think I'll have to say...
There's a boy, from my school, that I like, since about 1 year ago or so. 2 months ago I asked my friend to tell him and guess what he said! "She's nice but no I would not kiss her or date her or whatever"! I'm practically the ONLY girl that likes him and he doesn't like. He's dated a lot of girls, VERY different from each other! There's that black one, the other one that looks like Snow White, then the fat blonde one, the skinny one... The list goes on. The ONLY thing I've noticed that ALL of them have BUT me is boobs! Not necessarily big ones, he's dated a girl with small breasts but they are still bigger than mine! I think that's why I am here after all. And the girls' personalities are WIDELY different too! This boy plays the electric guitar in a metal band and he's dated girls that HATE rock! And he KNOWS I like metal. But he won't even talk to me about his band! What he does with everybody!
I know I shouldn't like him, I know you'll say he's a jerk but I... I can't control it. He's just too perfect and I'm too submissive! /:
By the way sincerely neither the girl or you in the photo look bad. You kinda look like some illustrations of Jesus lol. You are not ugly, you probably just have an... Unattractive personality, and thats why you have never had a real girlfriend. And yeah for most women, personality is more important than looks. Sadly it's not a good personality! It's the assertiveness and confidence that attract a woman! That's why we like some of the jerks... What pisses me off!
And from what I've read in some of your threads, you seem to do want to be an attravtive woman. Even if you think it's not possible. But sincerely, it's totally possible! Grow boobs, use a corset, grow your head hair and shape your eyebrows and remove any other hair, do that surgery that turns a penis into a vagina, and that other surgery that makes your jaw smaller, bleach your hair blonde and paint your nails and you're done!
I'm not what you'd call the average beauty. I wear minimal make up 10% of the time, I have this cute little gap in my teeth, my eyebrows are quite untamed and I'm shorter than your average woman. Even with smaller tits and a narrow waste I still pulled dudes so those concepts of attraction are highly irrelevant when it comes to mating. I get complimented most on my smile and the fact that I'm always the life of the party.
And there's no need to be harsh to anyone on here. There's nothing wrong with trying to emanate something You find attractive but you absolutely can not tell anyone they don't fit the standard of beauty just because you don't think so. I think you're trying to project your feeling of inadequacy on a 13 year old who needs to be taught to love herself and maybe you need to be taught that too. I think anyone who can't see the beauty in others has a real personal problems that they need to figure out.
Im not normal pretty either wear no make ever really I have nice skin but messy messy hair I used to be really quite flat but I always had men find me attractive i don't know why.
They say things when they see me today I went shopping I got a wow (who says that out loud haha) another dude was staring so hard he crashed his shopping trolley he was with his gf.
OK I can say with curves I get crazy attention when I was skinny still a lot though but always I get scary creep jobs doing creepy things like follow me.
I don't understand why?