24-05-2014, 00:08
(23-05-2014, 09:39)BonitaDDs Wrote: Beautiful pic missed miss is it you and the girl?
I think I'm more worried and insecure about my personality than body because sometimes I can be very shy or quiet which is very awkward in some situations I know my body is nice to look at even though I'm not thin.
Thank you! Yes, that's me with Jennifer in my back yard near the pool. We went skinny dipping in the pool later that night.
I'm usually pretty shy, too, in a public setting, I'm usually the quiet Beatle, or Harpo Marx, but, I think what you need to do is find something that flips your switch on and brings YOU out to play. One thing for me is music. Certain songs, and there are a LOT of them, just get my blood pumping and my happiness gear goes into motion at top speed and I no longer have that shyness problem anymore....for a while. I guess it's kinda like how some people become extremely boisterous only when they're drunk. Being on stage can do it for me, too. Especially if we've just played a very good gig!! Once the music's been over for an hour or so or once the show's over and we're on our way back home, the quiet Beatle comes back out gradually more and more.
One thing you should remember, though, Bonita is that, when you walk into a room full of people you've never met before, they have NO idea what you're really like, so, at that point, you CAN be very out-going towards them, as if you're somebody else. Pretend you ARE someone else, someone quite exuberant!! You just might find that it suits you and you'll stop being so shy! ;-) And the people you already know will probably welcome the change! Just have fun!!!! :-P