We have been together for several years now but my wife sees herself as significantly lopsided. I love her the way she is and don't think that she needs the implants. While i don't know what is significant for most woman, she tends to stuff her bra in order to equal them out.(she is probably a moderate B and then a large A cup) This makes her very self conscience. While she is determined to one day go up to a C-cup with implants, i think that it would be safer and healthier for her to try NBE first.
She is a bit old fashioned and so i do not know how to bring up the topic. Realistically she would probably be upset that I was researching this for her at all in the first place.
Thanks for any advice that any of you can give.
Tell her you love the way she is. Convince her she is the most attractive woman in the world. Go with foods and spices, for now. Breast massage increases prolactin, which is more effective during follicular phase (after new moon).
I don't know how discouraging someone from doing that would work, and if that works with everyone. Everyone is different, discouraging some people from doing something, sometimes makes them try to do it more. Fortunately, not everyone is like that. If you use guilt, that will definitely backfire. If she talked about it to you, you could tell her how you honestly feel about implants, and that you like her body natural because its her. Do it when she brings it up, or well before she does anything drastic. If she doesn't ever bring it up, someone else will have to give you advice on how to bring it up.
"I happened to see some forums with natural ways for bigger boobs and the people there seem to think it works. Maybe you could take a look at that before doing something as drastic as surgery."
"There's no way that would work."
"Well it's worth a shot at least. I don't like implants. They don't look as good; you'll probably look better the way you are now. And there might be safety issues with surgery."
Followed by either acceptance, annoyed tolerance, or rattling off with many angry sentences...
Hmm, it might be worth a shot. You never know. If she does go for it then let her read up on it herself. If not, then at least you've told her how you feel one time.
Easy next time she let's you see or touch them tell her they are perfect and beautiful and that they feel amazing because they are real be truthful say its been playing on your mind and your scared she will ruin them with plastic even remind her that you want her a real woman not plastic and that her breasts are the best to you worth more than any amount of silicone and that you don't find breast implants attractive and remind her they only look good in photos not in real life and that they are nothing close to the real thing especially in the touch and bounce tell her you were so upset she was thinking this you were desperate to find an alternative for her then show her your question here maybe.
Even the surgical alternative is better than implants which is fat grafting at least the result is natural.
But its true there are plenty of ways to even them out and grow naturally look and Jeniffer loves program she corrected asymmetry with pumping and roseblossom has an even simpler method of mostly massage here
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=17169
Most of the women here have grown more than a cup size I have grown nearly 10 inches only to the chest.
Good luck I hope it goes well and she changes her mind even when I was flat I wouldn't ever consider implants to me its quite discusting having an object under the skin I am so happy to now have very big naturals thanks to herbs.
You can't put a price on a natural pair of breasts even if they aren't 'perfect'(no ones are) but plastic is cheap for a reason.
I don't understand the problem I really need to be told the truth by my man I think we wouldn't work if he couldn't talk me imagine if she gets the surgery then finds out and there's nothing she can do.
If you see wikipedia's page "Breast enlargement supplements". It tries to convince people that it doesn't work. People would read that and believe it. This is actually the only FDA accepted proof
http://www.thedoctorstv.com/videolib/init/6467 , its about suction cups. It works, slowly and by little, but it works, consistently with what is constantly said in this forum.
People respond differently to telling them things. You can ask someone if they're ok, and they'll go off on you. Other times you can tell someone something that is good for their safety and they'll smile. That probably has a lot to do with timing, or how you say it.
If she brings up implants, that's the perfect chance to say its unsafe, unnatural, you prefer her how she is. Then, passively bring up natural means then drop it, unless she keeps talking about it. After that, let her think about it on her own, and don't push after that. Try not to bring up NBE on your own, unless its an emergency, and don't procrastinate if you think she's determined. If you say something assertively, to the important points, and in a passive voice, people are less likely to get aggravated. The more you push, the more it can backfire. Before then, you can also be subtle by massaging during follicular phase, and cooking asparagus dishes and adding fenugreek spice to it. Has she talked to you about it before? or how did it get brought up?
You could also bring it up by nonchalantly saying, how it was gross that a specific movie star got implants. but don't compare her to your wife.
(08-07-2014, 06:10 AM)lovely11 Wrote: [ -> ]If you see wikipedia's page "Breast enlargement supplements". It tries to convince people that it doesn't work. People would read that and believe it. This is actually the only FDA accepted proof http://www.thedoctorstv.com/videolib/init/6467 , its about suction cups. It works, slowly and by little, but it works, consistently with what is constantly said in this forum.
People respond differently to telling them things. You can ask someone if they're ok, and they'll go off on you. Other times you can tell someone something that is good for their safety and they'll smile. That probably has a lot to do with timing, or how you say it.
If she brings up implants, that's the perfect chance to say its unsafe, unnatural, you prefer her how she is. Then, passively bring up natural means then drop it, unless she keeps talking about it. After that, let her think about it on her own, and don't push after that. Try not to bring up NBE on your own, unless its an emergency, and don't procrastinate if you think she's determined. If you say something assertively, to the important points, and in a passive voice, people are less likely to get aggravated. The more you push, the more it can backfire. Before then, you can also be subtle by massaging during follicular phase, and cooking asparagus dishes and adding fenugreek spice to it. Has she talked to you about it before? or how did it get brought up?
You could also bring it up by nonchalantly saying, how it was gross that a specific movie star got implants. but don't compare her to your wife.
I don't know anyone grow from asparagus and imagine how much you would have to eat if it did have you tested this? I would be interested if you have a thread of your results I can't find
I don't have a post on it. Its really the root that works. However, the purpose was to be subtle and to use the grocery store, to see if she notices luteal swelling on her own. This is what I have on asparagus
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=20729 . Aside from the discussion on that page, I came across another pubmed paper that also said the root was used.
(08-07-2014, 06:36 AM)lovely11 Wrote: [ -> ]I don't have a post on it. Its really the root that works. However, the purpose was to be subtle and to use the grocery store, to see if she notices luteal swelling on her own. This is what I have on asparagus http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=20729 . Aside from the discussion on that page, I came across another pubmed paper that also said the root was used.
Yes I heard it is healthy for breastfeeding, I don't like it enough to eat it everyday without being sure it would work, wouldn't it be fun to make up an nbe diet but I think it would be quite difficult for someone new to nbe they would need a lot of research and knowledge of their cycle and food.
Maybe its something you could think of?
Hey, honey, last night as I was looking for some midget porn, I found this website that deals udderly, sorry, utterly with inducing breast growth through various natural and non-chemical means. If you want bigger tits and don't want to risk implants, you should REALLY check it out!!
you're not sorry for using a word play. j/k