girlfriday, I can relate, before any NBE I was a 32A but still, my husband loved me and thought I was the sexiest thing he had ever seen, he told me before I started NBE that I didn't need it, that I was perfect already, but he understands that it has helped my confidence. Now that I'm a 32C he doesn't treat me any different, nothing has really changed except my bra size (and I gained weight lol not from NBE but from him treating me too well lol). So now I'm trying to lose the weight and get my tiny tummy back, if I can do that and keep the 32C size I will be so happy, but if I go back down some, eh, I won't care too much since he doesn't care either way, he just doesn't want me to lose my butt
but there are exercises that can build the butt so I'll be fine there. But before I met my hubby I dated some awful guys, one that was well off blindfolded me on my birthday telling me he had a surprise for me... when he took the blindfold off I was in a plastic surgeons office, he said he was going to pay for me to have implants for my birthday as a gift. I slapped the shit out of him and walked out, well I told the surgeon I was sorry for wasting his time but my EX boyfriend is a pig and I'm against having something fake in my body, the surgeon just smiled and said that it was okay and he understood that this was the second time this guy had done this with a girl and he paid for the consultation LOL idiot. So yea, there is some real scum out there that only care about that, and they aren't worth your time. There are some really nice guys out there ready to settle down with a girl who is not fake. Like I said just highlight what is good about you, I sometimes look in the mirror and tell myself what I love about myself, maybe you should try that, it sounds silly, but it works. I love my eyes, they are a very pretty green and when I wear the right makeup they stand out so well, like in my pic on here. I love my butt (so does hubby lol), I'm proud that I'm not obese or overweight, though I'd like to lose a lil weight it's not the end of the world, it could be alot worse, my biological mother is obese and I'm proud of myself I haven't let it get that bad. No I don't have the biggest breasts in the world, but I think they are very nice, they are perky given the fact I have a son and I breastfed. I'm a very friendly and outgoing person, I like to help anyone anytime I can. Etc. Etc. These are just a few of the things I look at myself and say. And it makes me feel 10 feet tall when I'm only 5'1
just know you are beautiful, you don't have to go to the standards of the media to be gorgeous, we are all gorgeous in our own way.