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Whoa that went from 0 to 100 real fast.

People I can see both sides of your arguments and how you might've come to them. I suppose I should've dialed it down about this particular topic in my first post, I got myself thinking a bit too much about my past and it gets me emotional easily.

Regarding male attraction and such my perception of it took a drastic turn in the very beginning of this year and I owe it entirely to my kind, loving, amazing and incredible boyfriend. He has never ever once said anything negative about my chest and he alwayssss shows me so much love and appreciation. I was so firmly set in my beliefs that it took me more than a few months simply to accept the fact that he loves me just the way I am and that he adores me from head to toe. I don't really pay attention to his financial situation so I can't speak about all that research on male attraction's correlation with appearance but I couldn't care less about it now. I love him just the way he is and he loves me just the way I am and that's all I could ever ask for in life.

Perhaps my case is one of many exceptions to all that research but honestly I couldn't be happier about it.

Is great to know you found someone who loves you so wholeheartedly! And I TRULLY BELIVE ANYONE CAN FIND LOVE, no matter what, after all the evolutionary way we feel attraction is not determining, but just an inclination. (I just don't get why people get all worked up about this tho)

So, is not that you're an exception to the rule, but that attraction and bonding are two different things. There are many other factors which influence interpersonal bondedness and close affection relationships and whithin that infinite possible combination of attributes is a very fortunate event to find love. 

Wishing both of you a long lived relationship, much more love and happiness!

Welcome again and may your NBE journey be a successful one.

Happy growing!