(05-11-2021, 05:01 PM)IrisHeart Wrote:Whoa that went from 0 to 100 real fast.
People I can see both sides of your arguments and how you might've come to them. I suppose I should've dialed it down about this particular topic in my first post, I got myself thinking a bit too much about my past and it gets me emotional easily.
Regarding male attraction and such my perception of it took a drastic turn in the very beginning of this year and I owe it entirely to my kind, loving, amazing and incredible boyfriend. He has never ever once said anything negative about my chest and he alwayssss shows me so much love and appreciation. I was so firmly set in my beliefs that it took me more than a few months simply to accept the fact that he loves me just the way I am and that he adores me from head to toe. I don't really pay attention to his financial situation so I can't speak about all that research on male attraction's correlation with appearance but I couldn't care less about it now. I love him just the way he is and he loves me just the way I am and that's all I could ever ask for in life.
Perhaps my case is one of many exceptions to all that research but honestly I couldn't be happier about it.
Im so happy for you, you sound like such a sweet girl, thats just how a relationship should be mutual respect and love. My apologies I just dont like when people bring their negative delusions based from deep seeded insecurities onto a forum that is supposed to be supportive and full of positivity. Sending love and light x