Okay thanks Eve and what about the ability to create discussion groups people could joy and then the discussions will only be seen by the ones who joy the group..some sorta chat format. Why else do we have the buddy list? It would then be nicer to actually only share with people who share back too instead of sharing with 100+ lurkers because this forum exists for 80% of lurkers. I havebeen scrolling through the members list and wonder why people can be member since 2013 and are still visiting regular and never posted 1 post. Perhaps we are better of without them, why would we want to share our experiences with them. Its the nr 1 reason active members leave this site.
The way this website is designednow is only encouraging people to not reply on each other. Many people have complained by not getting replies to threads... so what happens they dont reply back to others to bc nobody replies on them either... its a personal and diffecult journey and maybe we get more supportive and active in chat circles where we can remove our messages etc.
The way this website is designednow is only encouraging people to not reply on each other. Many people have complained by not getting replies to threads... so what happens they dont reply back to others to bc nobody replies on them either... its a personal and diffecult journey and maybe we get more supportive and active in chat circles where we can remove our messages etc.