Hi everyone, i have to comment here as i am so angry with a response i recieved from another forum, they have a very small natural breast enhancement section with a few people asking questions, i responded to try and help with no links to my forum or anything just advice, i wrote 3 posts i think and this is the response i got from one of there moderators which i have copied.
Hi
Can you please stop making reference to the fact that you WERE a man, if you have genuinely decided to live as a woman then please behave like one, women don't divulge personal information.
This site is for LADIES/WOMEN to talk about their breast issues, not for men to get their jollies, if you wish to continue on here please behave like any other woman not like a man.
We have had lots of men on the community over the years pretending to be women just so they can chat up the ladies so we are very strict on who stays on here if we suspect a man is not being totally honest he gets banned without discussion, this is in the terms and conditions of use.
Regards
Carol
I am discusted with this and feel very hurt, this is what you get when you try to help people, here are the links to the posts i made, what did i do wrong.
http://community.breasttalk.co.uk/forum/...age/1#1367
http://community.breasttalk.co.uk/forum/topic/202
http://community.breasttalk.co.uk/forum/topic/199
Please am i being over sensitive here have i done something wrong, i just dont get this atall, im so angry
Hugs Cheryl xxxx
Hi hun. i am so sorry that this has happened to you. I have read over your posts and do not see what there was to cause offense. Your posts were on topic and informative. The fact you were once a male gives you insight to the questions asked. Presenting that fact allows others to understand that you know what you are talking about. It was not fair for this carol person to threaten you with expulsion without first checking her facts.
There were better ways to handle this then the way it was handled. I will be writing the site owner a letter when I have time to devote myself fully to the task.
Personaly I am glad you are here so don't let it get you down.
Cheryl, I too read your posts, and there was absolutely nothing offensive whatsoever (and I'm a biological female). That Carol "person" (and I use the term loosely) was making hastened assumptions. It really sucks when you genuinely try to help someone, and then get jumped on like that. That happened to me once, on a homeschooling board; a bunch of parents wanted to put their kids back in public school because they supposedly could get "free" money for college (program ran out of money three years later - big surprise). And their kids were doing so well with homeschooling; and they started a thread asking other parents what they thought about it. Well, I was the ONLY one who said maybe we oughtta think about what's best for our KIDS, and if they are doing very well with homeschooling, maybe you should stick with it, cuz switching them to a new school would be really stressful and disruptive to them; and who's to say that money will still be there 10 years from now. Needless to say, I got jumped on all over by all those "parents" who said I was being judgmental and stuff.
I was pregnant with my son at the time, and VERY, VERY upset by it all. I finally just said "screw it;" I didn't need THAT stress in my life. Whatever. Sorry about my rant, but you're not alone! It's a sad world we live in, when decent people try to help others and end up being the one blasted! I have no room for that kind of stress in my life - and you don't, either.
They're not worthy of the advice and expertise you could've given them.
I'm sicked by u carol what is it to u wat ever gender is om here don't let the little things in life harm u so bad it just goes to show how weak ur character really is so my homegurl got and grew bigger titties than u don't hate con graduate. Her and yes her dnt u ever make her feel any less she is her with us and she is beautiful if u cnt see it than I feel sorry for you
complete rubbish! This Carol person is so ignorant! She is probably one of those people threatened by transgendered persons using the women's restroom! Doesn't she realize that probably she has more of a chance of getting her a$$ kicked by a biological females as transgendered are often even more ladies in manners and how they display themselves? Ugh!
What on earth does it mean to "behave like a woman"? And this Carol is divulging plenty information about her ignorance by saying the things she said.
Cheryl, I believe that your story and the fact that you were once male gives a lot of inspiration && incentive for all of us to pursue & continue our goals with NBE. Your posts are always lovely, informative and supportive. If this person (and I use that term loosely) refuses to understand your values & lifestyle choices, then I wouldn't advise you to correspond with her or on her forum. By the by, you seem too cool to be wasting time being upset.
SMILE
Thanks everyone for your support, it just really got to me when i read the messege she sent, i felt really unwelcome and made out to be some kind of pervert or something just for trying to help, it makes you realise how good this forum and hopefully mine will be and id say the noogleberry forum is friendly aswell. So thank you all again for being so nice and if theres anything i can do to help you or anything just let me know
Hugs Cheryl xxxx
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I can't believe that was written to you Cheryl. The nerve of some people, really!
That silly woman has no idea what a tremendous help you've been to all the women here on this forum for advise and support. "Not for men to get their jollies"! Ugggghhhh!!! some people...
Well you are a treasure to have here Cheryl, we are very lucky to have you.
Wasn't Carol the name of the majestic poster? Maybe she did find another forum that she felt suited her more. Wording sounded familiar.
Sorry about that Cheryl....keep your head high.
Thanks Amaven and bellalily, i suppose some people just do not like transgender people and they are intitled to there opinion, i just dont see what i put to even warrent a reply like that lol im getting use to that response now, you would be suprised how often i get that in the real world, i suppose because im open with who i am and use to be that puts people off, but i try to use the fact i was a male to show how effective NBE can be and so people know who they are talking too. And i dont think its majestic lol she does sound similier though, but there are alot of people who are like that. Thanks for the support everyone its very appreciated
Hugs Cheryl xxxx