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Can hubby help with the massage?
May 15 2007 at 6:54 AM Julie (no login)
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I've read many of the posts about this GY method, but haven't seen this question asked:
Can your husband help with the massaging on this program, or must it be all done by myself? I don't know if I can do 80 minutes of massage per day, but my work-at-home husband might be willing to help.
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cutevelvet
(Login cutevelvet) Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 15 2007, 3:27 PM
of course he can!! as long all you do is concentrate on the massages for the 4o mins! lol
my hypothesis?? u wont last the first 5 mins!!!
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Henri
(Login henriettahippo)
SENIOR MEMBER Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 15 2007, 7:45 PM
Shoot in my house - you wouldn't last taking your bra off and then asking for some help...........
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cutevelvet
(Login cutevelvet) Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 15 2007, 8:10 PM
i could walk around naked and i wouldnt get a second glance.....
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Lisa
(Login lilmama40) Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 18 2007, 6:47 PM
My hubby doesn't mind so much that I take time out to do this, but I doubt he would want to give up 40 minutes of his time to do it for me, lol. Plus, I don't know that I'd want him to because I can just picture getting annoyed if he pushed to hard and hurt me or something and then him getting annoyed with me and it ending up in a mess. I feel like I need to be the one in control of it. But if it works for you and hubby, totally go for it!
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fengshui
(Login fengshuiTW)
SENIOR MEMBER cutevelvet May 19 2007, 10:03 AM
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>i could walk around naked and i wouldnt get a second glance.....
HAHAhaaaaaaaaa~~~~~~
me2 me 2, hubby always looks at small-boobie-young-girls pictures, I have no idea why, men don't know what they want, eh? hehe, I am doing this for myself.
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Henri
(Login henriettahippo)
SENIOR MEMBER Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 19 2007, 10:39 PM
don't get me wrong ladies - I could walk around naked and not get a second glance, BUT if I were to ask for help then I would get the attention.
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WiccanWoman
(Login WiccanWoman123)
SENIOR MEMBER Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 20 2007, 2:12 PM
OK I tried this with my hubby who is very supportive about this whole thing, Goddess knows he is a saint for listening to me talk about NBE for hours everyday LOL.
Well after making him promise to be serious and not make it into a sexual thing (cause he'd never make it thru the 40 mins then lol) He tried. Yup I ended up finishing the last 30 mins myself after him either doing it too soft or too hard etc etc, its really just too difficult for someone else to know how much pressure to apply when they can't feel that pressure.
It would be nice but it really doesn't work to have help.
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Just JB
(no login) Hubby Help April 26 2008, 10:49 AM
This may be wierd but I'm the one that got the wife into massageing her boob's.. I don't mind and as for feel and touch. All she does is lets me know where to go and how much preasure she wants. I think that communication and sensuality between us goes a long ways.
JB
May 15 2007 at 6:54 AM Julie (no login)
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I've read many of the posts about this GY method, but haven't seen this question asked:
Can your husband help with the massaging on this program, or must it be all done by myself? I don't know if I can do 80 minutes of massage per day, but my work-at-home husband might be willing to help.
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cutevelvet
(Login cutevelvet) Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 15 2007, 3:27 PM
of course he can!! as long all you do is concentrate on the massages for the 4o mins! lol
my hypothesis?? u wont last the first 5 mins!!!
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Henri
(Login henriettahippo)
SENIOR MEMBER Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 15 2007, 7:45 PM
Shoot in my house - you wouldn't last taking your bra off and then asking for some help...........
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cutevelvet
(Login cutevelvet) Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 15 2007, 8:10 PM
i could walk around naked and i wouldnt get a second glance.....
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Lisa
(Login lilmama40) Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 18 2007, 6:47 PM
My hubby doesn't mind so much that I take time out to do this, but I doubt he would want to give up 40 minutes of his time to do it for me, lol. Plus, I don't know that I'd want him to because I can just picture getting annoyed if he pushed to hard and hurt me or something and then him getting annoyed with me and it ending up in a mess. I feel like I need to be the one in control of it. But if it works for you and hubby, totally go for it!
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fengshui
(Login fengshuiTW)
SENIOR MEMBER cutevelvet May 19 2007, 10:03 AM
from cutevelvet
>i could walk around naked and i wouldnt get a second glance.....
HAHAhaaaaaaaaa~~~~~~
me2 me 2, hubby always looks at small-boobie-young-girls pictures, I have no idea why, men don't know what they want, eh? hehe, I am doing this for myself.
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Henri
(Login henriettahippo)
SENIOR MEMBER Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 19 2007, 10:39 PM
don't get me wrong ladies - I could walk around naked and not get a second glance, BUT if I were to ask for help then I would get the attention.
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WiccanWoman
(Login WiccanWoman123)
SENIOR MEMBER Re: Can hubby help with the massage? May 20 2007, 2:12 PM
OK I tried this with my hubby who is very supportive about this whole thing, Goddess knows he is a saint for listening to me talk about NBE for hours everyday LOL.
Well after making him promise to be serious and not make it into a sexual thing (cause he'd never make it thru the 40 mins then lol) He tried. Yup I ended up finishing the last 30 mins myself after him either doing it too soft or too hard etc etc, its really just too difficult for someone else to know how much pressure to apply when they can't feel that pressure.
It would be nice but it really doesn't work to have help.
Edit Message Delete Message
Just JB
(no login) Hubby Help April 26 2008, 10:49 AM
This may be wierd but I'm the one that got the wife into massageing her boob's.. I don't mind and as for feel and touch. All she does is lets me know where to go and how much preasure she wants. I think that communication and sensuality between us goes a long ways.
JB