16-11-2015, 03:01 PM
Each of us that are male and involved in this NBE experience whether its cross dressing, sex change ,, or just the strong desire to have a feminine chest,, have to at one point or another confront the possibility of exposure.
By that i mean some situation that makes either our hobby or our physical appearance a public matter. We are basically an individual with a secret identity , due to social taboos and family expectations.
There is no easy way to reason around it, we are treading a line so fine that many crucial things in our lives hang in the balance,, not to mention at times our personal safety.
And as distasteful as this type of discussion is, i was wondering about your take on that situation.
I live in a rural community an hour south a major city,, I have hundreds of friends in my town and numerous family members living within 15 minutes of my home.
My desire isnt to change my sex,,, But the realities of my physical changes have me in an odd predicament.
I cant ever again hang around men like i used to, id have to wear a cinch around my chest constantly, and that might not even be enough to hide it.
Most-Men in my area arent capable of understanding,,, and others in my community would use it as a tool to inflict cruelty, even if they knew i was just a victim of gyno. We( you and i ) know there's more going on, lol but even in that lesser case it would be grounds for derision and a reason to put me outside,, my social circle.
Even many women here would be close minded,, professionals at the hospital ,,female,, that do my mammo grams have shown shock and a slightly veiled disgust at my chest,, At any rate in a community this small, if individuals working at the hospital see my chest, my boobs,lol just how long does it take to leak to family , or friends, and the community.?
And i guess the main issue-question is what is your plans or present mode for dealing with people that approach you negatively ,, have many of you experienced physical problems, altercations , etc.
I dont ask this to bring anyone down, it just seems to me that we deal with the issues of our personal desire here, we display to a degree our personal (physical wish list) ,lol
and we support one another in this journey whatever our ultimate destination is. But the realities we live with, our strategies to remain mentally healthy in this journey as well have to be of importance.
Each month for our peace of mind ,, we budget we plan how to get financially through the month, there in lies our peace,, our preparations for the realities of this world are just as important, (especially if were taking any form of this path),,
This is becoming alot longer than id originally planned,,lol but the essence of it is ,, what is your view point on protecting your rights to this life, sure there's no question at all if you can fly below the radar,,,
But as you advance in growth ,,as your body changes become noticeable ,, what is your strategy for dealing with that?
How would You, deal with family and community if your altered state became a public issue?
By that i mean some situation that makes either our hobby or our physical appearance a public matter. We are basically an individual with a secret identity , due to social taboos and family expectations.
There is no easy way to reason around it, we are treading a line so fine that many crucial things in our lives hang in the balance,, not to mention at times our personal safety.
And as distasteful as this type of discussion is, i was wondering about your take on that situation.
I live in a rural community an hour south a major city,, I have hundreds of friends in my town and numerous family members living within 15 minutes of my home.
My desire isnt to change my sex,,, But the realities of my physical changes have me in an odd predicament.
I cant ever again hang around men like i used to, id have to wear a cinch around my chest constantly, and that might not even be enough to hide it.
Most-Men in my area arent capable of understanding,,, and others in my community would use it as a tool to inflict cruelty, even if they knew i was just a victim of gyno. We( you and i ) know there's more going on, lol but even in that lesser case it would be grounds for derision and a reason to put me outside,, my social circle.
Even many women here would be close minded,, professionals at the hospital ,,female,, that do my mammo grams have shown shock and a slightly veiled disgust at my chest,, At any rate in a community this small, if individuals working at the hospital see my chest, my boobs,lol just how long does it take to leak to family , or friends, and the community.?
And i guess the main issue-question is what is your plans or present mode for dealing with people that approach you negatively ,, have many of you experienced physical problems, altercations , etc.
I dont ask this to bring anyone down, it just seems to me that we deal with the issues of our personal desire here, we display to a degree our personal (physical wish list) ,lol
and we support one another in this journey whatever our ultimate destination is. But the realities we live with, our strategies to remain mentally healthy in this journey as well have to be of importance.
Each month for our peace of mind ,, we budget we plan how to get financially through the month, there in lies our peace,, our preparations for the realities of this world are just as important, (especially if were taking any form of this path),,
This is becoming alot longer than id originally planned,,lol but the essence of it is ,, what is your view point on protecting your rights to this life, sure there's no question at all if you can fly below the radar,,,
But as you advance in growth ,,as your body changes become noticeable ,, what is your strategy for dealing with that?
How would You, deal with family and community if your altered state became a public issue?