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I'm too embarassed to tell my boyfriend or anyone that I want to do NBE.

I'm worried that if I do grow a cup size or two, he's gonna notice. It's just gonna be awkward...like if he asks me what's going on, I don't want to say 'yeh I went on natural breast enhancement because I'm so insecure about myself.'

I guess I could just tell him I've gained weight or something...but it just doesn't seem convincing (and i'm the world's worst liar lol). I don't want to lie and say 'oh wow! I didn't even notice! I think I had a second growth spurt'

Has anyone told their partner? Has anyone not told their partner, done NBE and grew, then got confronted by their partner?

There are several options, all of which are true:

* It's an ancient secret among women and highly guarded. You could tell him, but then you'd have to kill him.

* You're not done growing yet.

* You were in a hurry and put on the spare set on that day. Your other set in the closet and he should be thankful you didn't use one of each.

* Maybe he is paying more attention that day and needs to simmer down.

It's good to be honest, but there is a difference between open and honest. Many people think that the two are the same. They are not. This is your boyfriend, not your husband. While the interest is understandable, intimate knowledge of *your* covered parts is better left to his imagination. Some good humor is a way to acknowledge the attention and then move on to something else.

My 2 cents,

Wahaika

I agree with Wahaika between the difference of a husband and a boyfriend. When you have the boyfriend, this is my opinion, you should not need to let him know what you are doing regarding this particular thing (NBE). I want to make it straight forward and not make it sound like I am telling you to do anything you feel like, without caring to disrespect him. You are not married yet. I am married and talked to my husband about my plans of NBEing BEFORE doing anything at all. I told him that I wanted to do it for myself (this is because he told me that I was perfect). Since I had been with him for 5 years before starting NBE, we fully felt comfortable talking about personal issues. So I was honest to him and told him about my low self-esteem regarding my breasts. All he said was that as long as I don't damage my body in any way, to go for it.

If you have been with your boyfriend for many years, and it comes to not being able to avoid the fact that your breasts are growing, be honest to him and tell him what you are doing and why. If you have not been with him for that much of a long time, or feel like you have but he wouldn't understand or accept it, then you set your foot down girl, which means tell the truth. You are the owner of that body and do not need the consent of others to do what you know will help you; unless you are under 18 . If you feel like NBE will help you, what would you rather do, not help yourself in order to please others (who seem not to care about your insecurities), or help yousrelf in order to please yourself and be able to help others? When I had a low self-esteem, I would feel so insecure and would show it with a bad temper. My marriage was not doing so good. Once I started seeing and feeling a difference, I was a pleasure to be around (calm, fun, and mature). I helped my marriage work out better by helping myself first, by pleasing myself with the use of a confidence enhancer. Remember this is my opinion and my experience.

One thing though, I have not told my family other than my husband. They have not said anything yet about a difference, but when they do, I will be honest with them. In other words, tell the truth either way. NBE is much more comfortable in my opinion when you do not have to hide it.

Something that is somewhat related to this: when I was 5 months pregnant, my mom still did not know. People would ask her, "is your daughter pregnant?", she would try to figure it out and be like "no..." because she did not see much of a big stomach. Later that month I decided to confess, since it was getting a little too late , and before I reached 6 months, my stomach grew immensily! There was no way I could hide it from anyone if I wanted to. My mom noticed the sudden shift and told me that when a woman is trying to hide her pregnancy, the stomach is not fully released, almost as if the child feels the fear to be seen. I believe the same thing with breasts. If you want to keep them a secret, you might cause feelings of discomfort, which might not be very appealing for the breasts; almost like drawing a line to where they cannot pass. You have to keep your body relaxed, stress causes hormonal problems. Stress can derive from the result of keeping it a secret. And stress can hinder NBE results.

Oh yeah and LMAO on Wahaika's first point!!!

(24-02-2012, 10:19 AM)Lux Wrote: [ -> ]I'm worried that if I do grow a cup size or two, he's gonna notice. It's just gonna be awkward...like if he asks me what's going on,

As a guy I can let you in on a secret, guys are clueless. We barely notice a new hair cut, let alone a very slowly changing bust line. My wife's breasts are a lot larger now than when we were married. Between weight gain, 3 kids and breast feeding things change.

If he questions you (which I would put money against) just say yea they are looking good aren't they.

Don't stress over it. Tell him or don't tell him it really makes no difference to us. You could workout every day to firm up your butt, would we notice?

Even if your boyfriend did notice some breast growth, and even if he did notice you're a bad liar, I really doubt he'd think much of it. I bet he'll just be pleased and not too bothered with the details! Besides, NBE is probably not even in the reach of his imagination, so he probably wont be guessing right!


Although, I'm very honest and open with my boyfriend, so he does know. It doesn't bother me nor him. He's supportive and sometimes even helps me research. It took a while before he stopped insisting that I shouldn't try to grow them and I'm fine like this. He finally realized that I'm going to try no matter what so he might as well make himself useful instead of trying to make me change my mind. He's happy that I'm trying though hehe. Besides, he's addicted to bodybuilding stuff too, so we both love improving our bodies lol.


Good luck anyways!

Just tell him you are balancing out your hormones! You were growing up with wonky hormones levels and now you are correcting it! No shame in that. I sware to you we women tell our men everything and shouldnt have to feel guilty about it when our breasts are mysteriously growing!

My lashes are way fuller now that I have been taking supps.(by effort btw- finally happening!) I am not going to make a big deal of it when my bf notices cause its just a deficiency I am correcting to bring my lashes that would have been if I were healthy without this autoimmune disease I have anyway!

Men bodybuild all the time and we're all right with it. But the idea of NBE is a little weird for most men.

If my bf ever finds my PM, I'm gonna say it's to balance my hormones and it's true! It really helps my cycle.

I personally like to keep my boyfriend in the dark about "why" I take all these pills. I refer to them as "my vitamins", and they are, basically. He provides a really good objective measuring device, because when he notices that they are bigger, he isn't expecting it and he even tries to convince me that they are bigger. It's always pretty reassuring!

I guess it depends oh how serious you are, how long you have been together, etc. My boyfriend and I live together so it's hard to hide, and he knows well my dissatisfaction with my breasts. It's really up to you. If you don't feel comfortable, then don't tell him. Men are typically pretty understanding and supportive, though!

Hi All (I'm new here) I just wanted to share my thoughts on this topic. I'm just starting UB and I did tell my boyfriend. Since we live together and have a very open relationship usually telling each other everything, I didn't feel the need to hide the UB from him. He's been very supportive of me so far with it, and we're just kind of hoping for the best when it comes to boobie growth!